A podcast for healing and hope after divorce
Your Marriage Ended. Your Story With God Hasn't
Rooted In Christ is the essential podcast for divorced Christian men seeking healing and guidance. Join Karlton McIver and Rev. Jerome Robinson as they share personal experiences, practical advice, and godly wisdom to help navigate the path to recovery and renewal after divorce.
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March 31, 2026
Faith After Divorce: Crossing to the Other Side
This episode concludes the 'Faith Under Fire' series, focusing on healing and restoration after divorce. Hosts Karlton and Rev Jerome share practical advice, biblical insights, and personal stories to help men move from surviving to thriving in God's purpose. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Series Recap 02:42 Why Finishing the Healing Matters 03:53 The Danger of Half-Healed Men 04:37 Crossing to the Other Side: What It Means 06:38 Dealing with Immediate Post-Divorce Emotions 08:49 Biblical Pro
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Nov. 1, 2025
Premiere -Rooted In Christ Men After Divorce Podcast
Break the silence—Rooted In Christ Men After Divorce Podcast gives a voice to men’s struggles, victories, and faith-driven restoration Divorce breaks more than a marriage — it can break a man's identity, his confidence, and his connection to God. In this premiere episode of Rooted in Christ: Men After Divorce, host Karlton McIver opens up about his own journey through divorce and the healing that only faith could finish. Joining him is Sergeant Ron Jackson, who brings a raw, honest look at the
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July 14, 2026
Courtroom Strategies for Fathers: Stay Calm, Stay Strong
This episode offers vital guidance for fathers navigating the challenges of divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting. Featuring attorney Alfred Phelps, it emphasizes faith, communication, and self-control as keys to redefining fatherhood and maintaining strong relationships with children. key topics Reclaiming confidence as a father Legal factors influencing custody decisions Effective communication boundaries in co-parenting Biblical principles for forgiveness and patience Internal heal
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June 23, 2026
What Your Kids See
In this episode, Karlton and Reverend Jerome reflect on their journey of rebuilding after divorce, emphasizing the importance of legacy, restoration, and intentionality in fatherhood. They share practical steps for growth and announce a sabbatical, encouraging listeners to rest and prepare for an upcoming season focused on emotional honesty.
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June 9, 2026
Your Net Worth Crashed Your Worth Didn't
In today’s episode, we dive into the emotional and financial aftermath of divorce. Learn key strategies for rebuilding your finances after divorce. Discover practical steps to regain control of your money and emotional well-being Finance Coach David Samuel shares his journey of rebuilding his finances and identity from scratch. He emphasizes the importance of knowing where you stand before making any moves. Start by mapping out your finances—capture all documents, income, debts, and expenses. I
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May 26, 2026
Moving On Pt. 2-The Wallet Doesn't Lie
This episode explores how analyzing bank statements can reveal emotional spending patterns post-divorce, helping men heal financially and spiritually. Hosted by Karlton and Rev Jerome, it offers practical steps to break the cycle and rebuild trust in God and finances. 00:00 Understanding Financial Behavior Post-Divorce 05:29 Identifying Spending Patterns and Their Emotional Roots 09:19 Practical Steps for Financial Recovery and Healing financial healing, divorce, emotional spending, bank state
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May 12, 2026
The High Cost Of Moving On
This episode addresses the emotional and financial challenges men face after divorce, emphasizing the importance of intentional recovery and financial discipline. Hosted by Karlton with Reverend Jerome, it offers practical advice on rebuilding stability and avoiding costly mistakes during this critical period. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Post-Divorce Financial Challenges 01:03 NEWCHAPTER 02:47 The Impact of Emotional Spending 05:17 Intentional Recovery vs. Impulsive Decisions 07:53 Lessons fr
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April 28, 2026
The Pressure Cooker Effect
This episode explores mental health, emotional regulation, and resilience, emphasizing the importance of venting pressure healthily and overcoming personal challenges like divorce.
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April 14, 2026
3 F Words Men Need to Conquer After Divorce
Summary This episode tackles the emotional journey of men navigating divorce, focusing on frustration, faith, and forgiveness. Hosted by Karlton and Reverend Jerome, it offers practical insights and spiritual encouragement for healing and rebuilding after divorce. Chapters 00:00 Facing the F Word: Frustration, Faith, and Forgiveness 04:03 Navigating Faith After Divorce 08:10 The Challenge of Forgiveness Takeaways Frustration is a doorway, not a dead end, when brought to God. Survival fai
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March 31, 2026
Faith After Divorce: Crossing to the Other Side
This episode concludes the 'Faith Under Fire' series, focusing on healing and restoration after divorce. Hosts Karlton and Rev Jerome share practical advice, biblical insights, and personal stories to help men move from surviving to thriving in God's purpose. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Series Recap 02:42 Why Finishing the Healing Matters 03:53 The Danger of Half-Healed Men 04:37 Crossing to the Other Side: What It Means 06:38 Dealing with Immediate Post-Divorce Emotions 08:49 Biblical Pro
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Feb. 17, 2026
When You Don't Feel Enough Restoring a Man's Identity After Divorce
In this episode of Rooted in Christ, host Karlton McIver and life coach Billy Roberts discuss the profound impact of divorce on men's self-worth. They explore how men can separate their identity from their marital roles, rebuild confidence through small daily wins, and overcome negative self-talk. The conversation emphasizes the importance of focusing on the present and recognizing that the best is yet to come, encouraging listeners to embrace their worth as defined by God rather than their past
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Jan. 6, 2026
Rooted, Not Broken
“Healing for Men Navigating Divorce Through Faith” Host Karlton McIver and Reverend Jerome launch a transformative series for men facing the challenges of life after divorce. This episode lays the foundation for healing, resilience, and rediscovering identity in Christ. If you’re searching for hope, you’re in the right place.
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Dec. 16, 2025
Building New Holiday Traditions After Divorce
In this conversation, Rev Jerome addresses men who are navigating the emotional challenges of divorce, especially during the holiday season. He discusses the feelings of sadness and depression that can arise, particularly around Christmas, and emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset. Rev Jerome offers practical advice on how to cope, including volunteering, maintaining physical health, and planning activities with children. He encourages listeners to focus on personal growth and spir
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Nov. 18, 2025
From Mess To Messenger
The conversation focuses on creating a welcoming space for men navigating their journey after divorce, emphasizing honest dialogue and support rooted in Christian values. takeaways Every man is welcome here, whatever your story. This space is for honest conversation and real support. Guidance will be grounded in Christian principles. Seek strength and purpose on this journey. It's important to have a supportive community after divorce. Honesty is key in conversations about personal struggl
Recent Blog Posts
July 7, 2026
Lost After Love: The Christian Man's Lonely Spiral
Nobody warns you about the silence. The paperwork ends. The moving truck pulls away. The friends who promised to check in stop checking in. And then comes the part no one prepared you for — the long, quiet spiral where a man who once led a househol…
July 4, 2026
The Man Your Kids Are Watching
You probably haven’t thought about it this way, but right now your kids are writing a story about who their father is. Not the story of the divorce — they’re too young, or too close, to know all of that. The story they’re writing is about you. How y…
About the Hosts
Karlton McIver
Host
For Karlton McIver, divorce was more than an event—it was a crucible for faith and self-discovery. Through honest conversation shaped by his own experience on both sides of divorce, Karlton welcomes listeners into a journey of emotional healing, spiritual depth, and the radical acceptance of brotherhood in Christ
Rev. Jerome Robinson
Co-Host
Having walked through divorce and single fatherhood himself, Rev. Jerome Robinson(AKA Rev. Jerome) knows the real struggles men face. With a background in music, public service, and pastoral care, Jerome blends practical wisdom and faith to help men build new chapters after loss